PolyPsychology
Australia
Counselling and coaching.
Ethical non-monogamy specialists.
Are you practising an alternate relationship style and finding it challenging? Or are you curious about trying it (or just finding out more)? Do you have specific questions or issues to work out? If so, non-monogamy specific counselling and coaching might be for you.Whether you're polyamorous, ethically/consensually non-monogamous (ENM/CNM), swinging, a relationship anarchist or wanting to learn more, having a therapist who understands the unique challenges can make all the difference. We are experienced Psychologists who specialise in non-monogamy. We are queer-friendly, neuro-divergent-friendly, kink-friendly...and we are just plain friendly!
SERVICES
Individual counselling & coachingOne on one online sessions to help individuals who are curious, struggling, or just want to improve their skills.
Relationship counselling and coachingFor couples, throuples, or any group of people who have specific questions or issues to resolve, or who want to enhance their relationships.
Non-monogamy focussed workshopsInformation and skills workshops to tackle common non-monogamy issues and to flourish.Coming soon
About
We are psychologists who are ourselves ethically non-monogamous. We are passionate about helping others to do non-traditional relationships successfully.
Who We Are
CECILIA GREEN
(she/her)
I was born in Sweden and moved to Australia as a child. As a teenager I started dating and ended up marrying young. I was never comfortable with the idea of being with only one person, even when deeply in love, but I had no idea there was an alternative. So I lived a traditional monogamous life with a husband and children for decades, before the pressure of feeling I wasn't living authentically became overwhelming and I made major changes. I thought I wanted to be single for the rest of my life, but then I discovered ethical non-monogamy. In the years that followed I gradually created the life I really wanted. It wasn't easy, but it was very much worth it.I love talking to people about non-monogamy, and as a psychologist with over 25 years counselling experience, I want to empower people to consciously choose their preferred relationship structures. I enjoy helping people from all backgrounds develop the skills necessary to successfully navigate the challenges that come with non-traditional choices.I work from a person centered, affirming approach, utilising evidence based techniques drawn from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Gestalt, Imago Therapy, attachment based therapy and psychodynamic therapy. As well as my qualifications as a Psychologist, I hold a Certificate in Sex Therapy Practice.
ELLIOT WOOD
(he/him)
Dr Elliot Wood is a registered psychologist with over a decade of personal experience in polyamory. Trained in Imago Relationship Therapy, he works from the principle that the relationship itself is the client, centring his practice on the ethical foundations of non-monogamy. After being married for over 18 years and now navigating life with multiple partners as well as parenting, he understands the real-world complexities of sustaining multiple relationships. Elliot brings particular insight into men’s experiences within polyamory, supporting men as they navigate identity, responsibility, communication, and ethical practice in non-traditional relationship structures. He is committed to ensuring every voice in the polycule is heard, helping clients balance ethical, long-term relationship dynamics with family life and professional commitments.
Our Values
CONNECTIONConnection is at the core of the human experience. Nothing else has the same power to nurture us, and research shows that quality relationships are the best predictor of a long and healthy life. But feeling connected can be difficult, especially with the added demands of non-monogamy.
Our aim is to help you strengthen the connections that are important to you, ensuring your relationships are built on a solid foundation of trust, understanding, and discovery.
CURIOSITYCuriosity is vital in alternate relationship styles as it encourages open-mindedness and continuous learning. By staying curious, partners can better understand each other's needs, explore new dynamics, and adapt to changes, fostering deeper connections and growth within the relationship.We approach each session with curiosity and a non-judgmental attitude, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for you to explore and embrace your unique relationship style.
AUTHENTICITYAuthenticity isn't easy, but it's essential for fulfilling and sustainable relationships. It means being true to yourself and openly communicating your desires and boundaries, even when this is difficult. This honesty builds trust, deepens connections, and ensures all partners are aligned.As relationship therapists, we help you embrace your authentic self and navigate your chosen relationship style with empathy and understanding.
FEES
A free initial chat is a good place to start for most people
Initial ChatA free 15 minute call to get to know each other and see how we can best help you.FREE
50 minute sessionA standard therapy or coaching session, available for individuals, couples, thruples, or more.$250
90 minute sessionAn extended session, often ideal when more than 2 people are attending.$350
Fee and cancellation policy available upon request
RESOURCES
Resources and links to relevant websites, books, podcasts, etc coming soon.
BOOKSThe Ethical Slut — Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton
A groundbreaking guide to open relationships, sexuality, communication, and consent. Often considered the foundational ENM text.Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships — Tristan Taormino
A comprehensive exploration of many forms of non‑monogamy, supported by interviews and practical advice on navigating real-world relationship structures.More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory — Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert
A widely referenced guide emphasizing ethics, communication, and structure in polyamorous relationships.Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy — Jessica Fern
Integrates attachment theory with ENM practice, offering tools for emotional grounding, security, and navigating jealousy.Cultivating Connection — Unknown Author (listed resource)
A practical, exercise‑driven book drawing from polyvagal theory and attachment science to strengthen relational skills in multi‑partner connections.
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The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non‑Monogamy — Lola Phoenix
Focuses on emotional regulation, communication, and anxiety management for those entering or navigating ENM.
The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory — Dedeker Winston
A modern, practical introduction to ENM covering personal growth, communication, and social challenges.
Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships — Jessica Fern
A step‑by‑step guide for transitioning from monogamy to non‑monogamy, including frameworks for common ENM milestones.
Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide — Alyssa Gonzalez
Explores how neurodivergent individuals can navigate ENM with clarity, structure, and self‑advocacy.
The Polyamory Paradox: Finding Your Confidence in Consensual Non-Monogamy — Irene Morning
A deeper dive into emotional complexity and confidence‑building within polyamorous dynamics.
Building Open Relationships — Dr. Liz Powell
An interactive guide with worksheets and prompts aimed at couples beginning and maintaining their non-monogamous lives.
The Polyamorists Next Door — Elisabeth Sheff
A long-term sociological study offering rare insight into multi-partner families and their social dynamics.
Polyamory in the 21st Century: Love and Intimacy with Multiple Partners — Deborah Anapol
A research‑driven look at modern polyamorous families, identity, and relationship practices.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Is polyamory all about the sex?
For many, but not all people, sex and intimacy are an important part of their relationships, however polyamory is about a lot more. Connection, communication, curiosity, are a few of the things people are seeking. Some poly people are also asexual, meaning they have little or no interest in sex, however polyamory means they can have fulfilling relationships with people who can have sexual needs met by other people.What's the difference between Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)
ENM has been used widely for years, however some people prefer the term CNM as exactly what is ethical can be hard to define. We still feel that a core goal of this lifestyle is to be ethical, so still tend to use ENM, but the terms are reasonably interchangeable.Why don't you provide services to people in Victoria?
The polyamorous/non-monogamous community in Melbourne is large, but also tight knit. Good therapeutic boundaries mean not having social relationships with clients, and the easiest way to ensure this doesn't occur is to avoid providing services to people who live in the same place.
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